
Guess what? Over the last few months, I have really been warming up to Hillary Clinton.
John Edwards is still my personal fave, in terms of which of the Dem front-runners best matches my own views on the issues... but I am ready to accept that someone else may be the nominee, and that someone else may be Hillary.
And, frankly, I find it pretty damn exciting to see the first woman who has a real shot at becoming President of the United States. How cool is that?
But people (by "people" I mean talking heads who are paid to blab on cable and write op-eds in the paper) say her biggest flaw is her low likability factor. Somehow, whether it was her more moderate/tough stance on national security or her stiff upper lip during troubles in her marriage, she has this public persona of being somewhat cold and stiff.
In fact, as a follow-up to their piece last week on Barack Obama's love of hoops, the
New York Times advised that Hillary needs to take up a sport in order to have more personality. Apparently her own hobbies of Scrabble, gardening, and crossword puzzles aren't sexy enough or relatable... Really, she needs to get in touch with her inner jock in order to be elected? (The rest of the column is fairly interesting, though, on the double standard of images for men vs. women in politics.) Chris Matthews is practically devoting his whole hour to Hillary's likability tonight, and he says
Newsweek has a piece on it in the current issue. Apparently, this is going to be the big conversation about Hillary's candidacy.
I admit, in the past I've bought into that cold, remote media image she has. But I saw her speak in a very intimate setting last year, and I had the chance to shake her hand and have a short conversation with her that evening. I was amazed! In person, she is so warm, and personable, and funny...it really turned my perception of her around. (And it made me wonder when "her people" are going to start making that side of her easier to see on a national scale... if you get 50 million voters in a room with her, I think they'd all join her side, but that's just not possible.)
Last week, I went to a kickoff rally for "Club 44" - the campaign's big public fundraising push to make Hillary Clinton the 44th President. She spoke briefly, and it was cool to see her live again even with about 2000 other people. She's pretty good with a crowd, and I think she's getting better. Plus it was very humanizing to see her talk with Caroline Rhea ("The Biggest Loser"), Katherine McPhee, and Babyface Edmonds. (That does sound like the setup to a "walked in the bar" joke, I know.)
Then, last night, I finally saw that Sojourners program on politics & faith that featured the 3 Dem front-runners. (Check out the transcript if you missed it.) Edwards and Obama were both good, and they both said pretty much exactly what I expected of them. But Hillary, the last speaker of the night, was the big surprise for me. She was honest, she was down to earth, she was self-deprecating, and she was FUNNY! Her humor may not be everyone's cup of tea, cuz she seems to have a rather sarcastic bent, but I love it. And, as someone who falls on the agnostic/deist end of the religious spectrum, I really appreciate her bluntness about religion being a very private thing for her and that she doesn't feel the need to wear it on her sleeve. Thank you! What a breath of fresh air for this century...
Ultimately... you know what it is? Hillary reminds me a whole lot of my Mom. They're both from outside Chicago, sort of sound the same, have similar senses of humor, and are only a year apart. And sometimes my Mom's sarcasm and her assertiveness and her rigidity when she believes strongly on something can turn people off, but I know her well enough to know how great she is, and how right she is in her convictions, and how worth it it is to get to know her better. Maybe I'm projecting more than I should, but seeing a bit of my Mom in Hillary just might win me over.